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I've had lots of ups and downs in my life, I don't want to get into that but my relationship with Nuscie has always been stable. She supported me through everything and that's the main thing. If you ask me what struck me at first, I'd say her eyes. Now, after all this time, there's so much more. She's very considerate, soft-hearted and compassionate. Khalid: It was an arranged marriage. I didn't know him at all and we didn't really get to know each other before getting married in Sex and Swingers Personals starfest bsg speed dating It's rather funny because I didn't want to marry him at all before!
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So much for my knight in shining armour. But thankfully, he was not like that bad photo and it turned out to be a beautiful marriage. He's loved me, he's taken care of me and I, him. I think there is no one out there like my Herbal high uk. It was exactly what I expected it to be, after hearing about ideal marriages from our elders. And fairy tales. Khalid: It taught me that the ultimate end of a person is family.
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The beauty of marriage is that you are not alone. Jerrar: We are both from the same extended family so we knew each other since we were young.
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Jerrar: Whenever the family would have a get together, we would meet and our rishta happened from one such occasion. Jerrar: There were many young eligible bachelors in our surroundings but as fate would have it, we ended up together. It has been 47 years. Jerrar: In our times we really never had any expectations Windows phone dating sites marriage laughsit was something that we just had to do. But we still had a wonderful life together and raised our beautiful children together. Jerrar: How do I even answer that?
Jerrar: I guess I can say it gave us a good life. We're a 'normal' couple for our time's society and we have worked on bettering the next generation through raising our children.
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After marriage, no matter how well you know your spouse, it's a new life. It's a new environment and both have to adjust. I want to say it for women more because I am a woman and know what we go through, we really need to be patient. Jerrar: But men too! We need Women in Nunney that want to fuck carry the family together and make sure nothing negative impacts our next generation.
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